Love is in the air! It’s time to talk a bit about oils in the bedroom.

*Disclaimer – I am not here to diagnose, treat, or cure any condition. YL products have not been approved by the FDA and the content in this class is purely for informational purposes only. Take what you like and leave the rest.

IMPORTANT NOTE: Please do your own research about these products if you are pregnant to determine if you feel comfortable using them.


Before we get the heat going, we need to share some really important information.

Young Living Oils can be used in multiple ways.


Using oils in the diffuser is amazing for emotions. If you need a little confidence or help to get in the mood, your diffuser is going to be your BEST friend.


Applying oils topically is another option. You can apply them to vita flex points for the male and female reproductive systems: the outer right ankle for the female reproductive system and outer left ankle for the male reproductive system. The vita flex point for the brain (which is often our worst enemy) is the thumb of the hand and big toe of the foot. Other places are fair game as well. Don’t think too hard about it. No matter where you apply them, they will absorb into your skin and you are good to go.

NOTE: Anytime you are using essential oils for the first time, dilute it with a carrier oil* and apply it to your forearm to see how you respond. If it makes your skin red, you either need to dilute it further or avoid that essential oil.

It is also probably not a good idea to rub oils on your husband, you know where, if he has never used them before.

*Carrier oils include any fatty oil: olive oil, coconut oil, grapeseed oil, avocado oil…


We don’t talk about many oils from the Vitality line in this class but please note that you can ingest oils from the vitality line to support all body systems.



These essential oils are one of Gods many gifts to us. I am so grateful that Young Living honors and respects the earth and these plants and works tirelessly to provide a pure and high-quality product for us to use.

The whole point of using these oils is to change the way you feel. If you are using inferior oils, you will not notice a change in how you FEEL AND PERFORM when you use Young Living oils.

For details on YL’s superiority in owning farms, hand weeding, never using chemicals, and quality testing their products multiple times, hop over to the YL website to check out its Seed to Seal promise at



Maybe your marriage and sex life isn’t everything it should be. Continue in prayer. Continue in faith. Continue in hope.

It’s no secret that many of us suffer from the common sexual dysfunction of low libido. I know! It sucks! There is nothing worse than your partner being in the mood and you have NO desire to be touched. It’s embarrassing and can often make you feel worse because you are letting your partner down. So let’s change that!

Here are a few reasons your libido could be lacking.

– Birth control pills.

– Menopause.

– Aging.

– Family problems and stress.

– Depression and anxiety.

– Trauma in your past.

It’s time to deepen your connection with your partner by having an open and honest conversation about where you stand and what may be the cause. Then, I suggest getting rest and reaching for those oils to decrease any occasional stress so you can GET YOUR MOJO BACK!

I know this is rare, but if you need to DECREASE your sex drive to meet your partner in the middle, take a few sniffs of your Marjoram oil.



“Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” Colossians 3:13

Ladies, you and I both know that for women, intimacy starts way before things get steamy. Doing things throughout the day to help get you in the mindset can be just what you need to turn up the heat later.



When your schedule is crazy busy, sometimes you have to pencil in those important meetings between the sheets.


If you look sexy, you will feel sexy.


I’m not saying send anything you wouldn’t want the world to see (I mean once things are out there, they are out there, lol).

A simple “Can’t wait to spend an evening alone” or “Thinking about your lips on mine” might be just enough to get the wheels turning on the other end.


Use Orange, Sensation, or Geranium to get you in the mood. Apply topically or diffuse.

– Orange – Brings joy to the heart, peace, and happiness to the mind.

– Sensation – Encourage feelings of love and affection when diffused.

– Geranium – May help ease nervous tension and lowers the defenses that may be preventing you from being open and receptive to new ideas.



“Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? Therefore honor God with your body.” 1 Corinthians 6:19-20

No one likes to cuddle up if they don’t feel clean. If you had a long day, take a few whiffs of Stress Away and hop in a hot shower.

Lather up with some toxin-free shower gels and shave those legs.

One of our favs is the Mirah Shave Oil.


It reduces razor drag, bumps, and nicks. It’s also a great aftershave.

If you’re an “au naturel” girl, more power to ya. Here are some favorite bath gels for romance:

– Sensation Bath & Shower Gel – 8 oz

– Dragon Time Bath & Shower Gel – 8 oz

– Make your own special scent with the unscented Bath & Shower Gel Base and your favorite oils.



It does feel nice when you do your hair, put on makeup, and put on fancy clothes.

If you are going to spend the time to get PURDY, do it with clean, safe products.

Harmful chemicals found in common beauty products can cause problems with your skin, general health, and your hormones. DON’T MESS WITH YOUR HORMONES!!!!

Do yourself a favor and make the switch to Young Living skin care and Savvy Minerals Makeup products.

They contain NO harmful products and actually contain ingredients that are beneficial to your skin. #WINNING




Let’s talk hormones….

Progesterone is a hormone in the body that impacts your libido. You NEED progesterone to have a libido.

Progessence Plus serum, also referred to as PP or P+, contains USP-grade progesterone (from wild yam extract) and was developed by a doctor who specializes in women’s health. It is formulated specifically for women, and ideal for women over 30 that want to feel more relaxed and balanced.

– Progessence Plus also makes a lovely perfume. Apply one drop to your wrists every night. After a week or two, you can apply one drop to wrists morning and night.

Note: If you’re pregnant, you don’t really need this one. So save yourself the money and restart it when you have that beautiful baby.

For more information about the ingredients view the product information page.


An important sex hormone called Estradiol (the predominant estrogen throughout a woman’s body in her reproductive years) is produced in the ovaries. Estradiol is required for reproductive and sexual function. Ok, I won’t bore you with the pathophysiology.

The most important takeaway is that a healthy reproductive system makes a girl happy.

Lady Sclareol* is an oil blend created especially for women to enhance the feminine nature and provide a relaxing experience when diffused.

SclarEssence*™ supports overall wellness with the properties of pure essential oils, including Clary Sage and Fennel.

Use these two oils in your daily regimen. Apply to female reproductive vita flex points or over your lower abdomen daily.

*These blends are perfectly fine if you’re hoping these love sessions lead to a bouncing baby, but I would avoid them during pregnancy as they both contain Clary Sage which is typically on “Oils to avoid during pregnancy” lists.


Oils that get you in the mood


Apply ENDOFLEX daily over your adrenal glands (mid back) and thyroid (throat) or ingest a few drops of Endoflex Vitality in water to support your endocrine system. #ADRENALSUPPORT



Dragon Time was created JUST for that time of the month. At least, that’s what I am telling myself. You know…. to help tame your dragon. Apply to wrists before and during your cycle as needed or put it in the diffuser or in an Epsom salt bath. Your partner (and everyone around you) will thank you.

Want to feel relaxed and aroused?

Use YLANG YLANG. A single oil found in Joy and Sensation blends, two other favorites for making you feel happy and help you get in the mood.

Need a little more help getting in the mood?

Use CLARY SAGE* diluted on or around the lady parts.

CAUTION: Do not use Clary Sage if you’re pregnant. Save it to use during delivery!

Avoid Clary Sage during or after consumption of alcohol. I’m not sure if this is necessary but I have read this somewhere so I wanted to mention it. =) I heard that it can increase the effects of the alcohol…so caution.


watching this over their spouse’s shoulder? =)

As women, we need to reach a vulnerable state where we let our guard down and surrender to our emotions and practice encompassing love for our spouse. Men need to do the same. Here are some oils that can help to do that.

Don’t worry ladies, this is where we get your guys on board. Members always ask, “How do you get husbands on board with oils?” I tell them there are two ways to get your guy on-board. Bring oils into the bedroom or bring home a paycheck by sharing your oils. Men never say no to more sex and more money. #AmIRight?

Let’s talk about some oils that spruce him up, get the blood pumping, and help him stand tall and proud. If you know what I mean. *wink wink*


Go ahead, get the schoolgirl giggles out. I giggle every time. I mean is this name perfect or what? I think the name really says it all. If you’re looking for a Golden Rod, then this oil should go in your Essential Rewards order. This one is out of stock right now so keep an eye out so that as soon as it comes back, you can SNAG IT UP!

Ok so how do you use this one?

Typically, use it in a love potion. Use on his inner thighs and work your way up. Pretty soon you will have a goldenrod on your hands, or in your hands. (Schoolgirl giggle.)


This oil isn’t a SPRUCE for nothing. It totally spruces things up. This oil helps your man STAND at ATTENTION. I’m totally stealing that from Lucy Libido. Her book, Lucy Libido, is awesome by the way and I highly recommend it if you want to dive even deeper into this topic. This oil really makes it a win-win for all. Who says no to firmer longer? He feels totally macho and you get to enjoy it all a little longer.

Use it with coconut oil as a lubricant or add it to your Tingle Massage oil for a little extra cooling for you.

Incorporate during pre-game time with a little play message. If he isn’t a fan of the floral scents then this 20 minutes before go time, in the diffuser, is perfect.

Tell your guy not to worry, he won’t struggle with standing at attention long after the act is done. God made these oils and he knows when enough is enough.


Let’s get the circulation going and the blood pumping y’all! Love making is a great cardio workout. Pair these two together and you will be rocking and rolling.

Dilute this one a lot before you apply it to the skin. We are trying to make positive memories not clips for a bloopers reel. Your buddies would be the only ones laughing.



When we unite together spiritually first, it’s as if our souls are drawn together. Say a prayer or read a psalm together first. Keep your minds focused on each other and Christ.

Have you ever heard of pheromones? Pheromones are behavior-altering agents. They are unlike most other hormones. They are ectohormones – which means they act outside the body of the individual that is secreting them and impact the behavior of ANOTHER individual and can induce activity such as sexual arousal.

The chemical constituents in Shutran were made for a man to wear to attract a woman! #WorthEveryPenny

Men, you can wear it every day like cologne to boost your confidence or put it on your forearms, shaft, and inner thighs.

Some like it scruffy and some like it silky. Hey, I don’t judge if it’s up top or down low. Regardless of where you use it, use Shutran Shave Cream.



“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests but also to the interests of others.” Philippians 2:3-4.

– Valor

– Hong Kuai

Liquid courage straight from plants!

Valor, when diffused and applied to wrists and ears, will bring about confidence like no other.

Hong Kuai has the highest sesquiterpene content of any Young Living essential oil, which means tiny particles can stimulate your brain!  If you want to feel inspired to take action, this is your go-to oil for the diffuser.

COOL FACT: Hong Kuai trees are ancient cypress trees that grow high in the mountains of Taiwan. They can grow to enormous sizes and live up to two millennia. Hong Kuai wood has long been used in the building of temples, royal palaces, and baths because of its beautiful look, wonderful smell, and it’s natural properties that allow the wood to last for hundreds of years.


OH, Baby, I’m Ready

– 4 drops Sensation

– 2 drops Hong Kuai

– 2 drops Lavender

Confident Breeze

– 5 drops Valor

– 3 drops Hong Kuai



When couples cultivate their spiritual life together, they greatly increase intimacy with one another. Sadly the spiritual aspect is often the missing link to a successful marriage. Try this beautiful blend while you work on your spiritual relationship together.


Mister was originally formulated for him to help balance the male energies.

Guys, if you need a little boost in the libido department, then this one is a must-have for you. Apply this oil to your ankles and front and back pubic bones (pelvic area).

However, a little side note, ladies, if you ever get that instant feeling of needing to rip off your top because it feels like a heat wave just hit you, this one can be great for you to use on a daily basis.


Need to get started with these bad boys ASAP!? Become a Member

Get your own essential oils starter kit!

The most cost-effective way to order the products mentioned in this class is to get a Young Living membership. Your membership will give you 24% off all products, plus discounted ER kits.

All you have to order to get your own membership is one of the Starter Kits. There is a Basic Starter Kit that you can purchase and then add on the products from this class. The essential oils PSK is a great value at $165 (Retail price over $400) and you can use the oils in that kit for some of the topics we talked about tonight.

You can use the oils in the PSK for calming, energizing, focus, cleaning, and muscle relief.

You will have access to a private FB community where we offer support and encouragement and a place for you to ask questions.

Most importantly, you are supported by me! I am dedicated to helping you with your health goals. I offer a three-month wellness plan to help you get started and use your starter kit to its fullest.

With a membership, you have the opportunity to help your fellow friends and family get their own starter kits. It’s as easy as passing your member number along when they want to order a PSK of their own. If you have ordered 50PV that month, Young Living will send you a $50 “thank you” check for every person you help get a PSK. #YesPlease! This is a great way to cover the cost of your products or bills every month. Need a little extra spending cash? Share these products and get paid.

AND…  I will be here to support you when you get your PSK and along the way, as you explore your new goodies!

When you use my member number to order your PSK in the next 24 hours, I will send you a welcome pack. It will include some reference materials to help you get started and a few things to make oiling easy.

Use this link to order. INSERT LINK

Reach out to the person who invited you to this class and get their personal link to grab your own kit!

Essential Rewards

Ok, before I share a ton of diffuser, roll-on, massage, and lubricant recipes with you in the link below, I want you to log into your virtual office and open up your Essential Rewards order. If you already placed your ER order this month, open up a quick order. Put the products in your cart that you want to try.

I am going to share a lot of recipes with you and I want to make sure you have what you need before it’s TOO LATE!

Ordering on ER is the best way to save money and support your health consistently. You can join or cancel Essential Rewards (ER) at any time.


1)  You will earn ER points for every ER order placed, and you can then cash them in for free products via Quick Order.

10%* of PV value of ER order in months 1-3

20%* back in months 4-24

25%* back in months 25+

*% back is calculated off the PV value of your ER order. Every product has a dollar ($) price and a PV amount. Sometimes they are the same, and sometimes the PV value is less than the dollar amount. ER will calculate in your cart the total PV value of the ER order!

2) Free gifts at months 3, 6, 9, and 12 and free bonus products when you order 100 PV or 190 PV in one order.

3) Cheaper shipping

4) The ability to join YL GO or YL GO+, FREE 2-4 day shipping subscriptions.

It’s like Amazon Prime but better!

One year of YL GO saves 3x. It is $59 annually and covers 12 ER orders


One year of YL GO+ saves 10x. It is $129 annually for 12 ER orders and 24 Quick orders. Quick Orders are regular orders outside of your monthly ER. I place these orders to cash in ER points for free products all the time, take advantage of random sales, or ship gifts to others for free.

5) You can change the products in your cart every month.

Every month I buy probiotics, hormone support supplements, NingXia Red and then rotate a lot of the other stuff based on need at that time.

6) You can change your shipping date every month, too.

If you ordered on the 15th the previous month but want to change the date this month to an earlier or later date based on your needs, you can do that online through your virtual office (select ER) or by phone to customer care.

I figure if someone is making the commitment to focus on health, then they will be swapping out toxic products for clean products (laundry detergent, cleaner, personal care products), trying new products (supplements, home care, skin care, makeup, food, etc.), and replacing products regularly, so, ER is the no-brainer, cost-effective way to be consistent in supporting overall health.

You can cancel Essential Rewards at any time and even rejoin with no penalty. BUT you will want to cash in your ER points you have acquired through ER orders for free product before you cancel so those points are not lost and wasted.

Use this link to set up your account and order your Premium Starter Kit.



Essential Rewards Explained –

ER shipping subscriptions YL GO & YL GO+ explained

Product Catalog


Check out these fun recipes for romance.  

As always, I a here to help.  Message me at anytime.  Cheers to happy, healthy, hormones and romance!

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